Pisces baby lives in a dream world, where there are
elves, fairies and magic trees. He is somewhat different from the other
babies, he will never shout, scream or throw tantrums for getting things
done. He has a better tactic up his sleeve; he will charm you into
agreeing for whatever he wants. Even after he grows up, the childish,
wistful aspect of his personality will never go away. Make-believe world
will always appeal to him. Whenever you are doing something important,
just create a small little world around him.
Use some soft toys, balloons, dolls, etc, to do that and you will never
even hear a word from him. A Piscean baby has a very sharp sixth sense
and intuition. This particular personality trait may catch you
off-balance quite a number of times. You will face a great amount of
difficulty to make him adhere to schedules and routines. He will not eat
because it is time for dinner or sleep because it is 11:00 pm. He wants
to eat when he's hungry, sleep when he's tired and play when something
attracts his fancy.
It will be better if you adjust yourself to his schedule. Infact, your
Pisces child will teach you not to be a slave of the clock. For him, it
is just a piece of machinery, which should never dictate how you live
your life. He is not too confident about his abilities and will have to
be reassured time and again. Don't forget to give him lots of attention
and admiration. Then, every now and then, he will want to be left alone.
It is better to leave him alone in such silent spells and he will come
back in some time, though it may turn out be the time for dinner rather
than lunch.
Conventions and patterns do not gel with the characteristics profile of
Piscean children and they find it very difficult to stick to them. So,
their teachers might find it a little difficult to fit in them in a
particular mould. They will hold an interest in various art forms,
music, dance and anything that's creative. A Piscean child is quite good
with words and may become involved in poetry or story telling. Handling
responsibilities will hardly be his cup of tea and you will have to
teach him this. The fish is also extremely sensitive and harsh words are
enough to being tears in his eyes.
He will have a deep wisdom and will mostly prefer spending time with
adults, rather than kids. People often accuse a March-born kid of lying,
but this is not the case. He does not have a malicious bone in his body.
It's just that he has his own vision of the world and the realities are
too harsh for him to bear. So, he adds his own color and warmth to the
situation to make it somewhat bearable. He needs your sympathetic
attitude or he may draw into an unspoken, glum depression. What a
Piscean baby sees and hears, no other person in the world can even
imagine.
Whenever he starts imagining, encourage him to capture it in the form
of paintings, poems or other forms of art. Then, gently goad him to face
the brutal realities of life. Slowly, he will learn to accept the world
as it is. Don't stifle his fantasies; he needs to see them in order to
build up the strength to face the facts of life. After he has refreshed
his own soul, he will be able to do the same for others too. You can
always learn from his empathy, patience, imagination and calmness. About
that silver stars he follows, just wait and it is possible that one day,
he brings it home and then, you can wish on it too!
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