Perhaps,
the one thing that is going to take you by surprise and also deeply
touch you on your India tour is the warm hospitality of Indians. A ready
smile on the face, always willing to go out of the way to help somebody,
exuding genuine happiness upon meeting a person - these are some of the
common traits you will find in maximum Indians. The Sanskrit adage, "Atithi
Devo Bhava," meaning the guest is truly your god dictates the
respect granted to guests in India. So it's understandable why the
tourists visiting India want to come back again & again.
The hospitality industry in India is, thus, very strong. Even if you
choose to stay in a hotel, all care will be taken by the management to
make you feel at home. However, if you wish to know what real Indian
hospitality is, then it will be better if you stay at the house of a
native. If you already have a friend or an acquaintance in India, it's
all the more better. Indians like to serve various types of tasty
mouth-watering local cuisines to their guests. So it shouldn't be
surprising if right upon entering a house you get aroma of sizzling
vegetables.
Most Indians live in a joint family so often you will find the in-laws,
uncles, cousins and others staying together. Saying Namaste to a guest
is integral to guest hospitality in India and you can expect every
member to greet you this way only. The womenfolk form the backbone of
traditional hospitality. Apart from taking full care of all their family
members, they never ever let a guest go away unfed or unhappy from their
home. Indian women are great cooks and can scurry up delectable dishes
in no time.
As soon as the guest arrives, the women of the house serve him water
and then ask any preferences for food or drink. Infact, you will be
surprised to find that even strangers on the road are so friendly and
hospitable. If you ask them where a certain shop or place is located,
chances are people will not only give you the direction, but also
accompany you your destination, especially when the place is nearby.
Indian people feel that their guests must be given proper warm
hospitality, which certainly requires extreme care and attention.
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