The first comment that people give when they see a
Libra child is something like, "Such a cute baby". His sweet
expression, chubby cheeks and captivating smile are sure to win hearts
of nearly all the people around him. He also seems very calm and
composed and you will seldom find him screaming without a reason. Now
comes the not-so-nice part! One thing you should never give a Libran
baby is a choice; he will seldom be able to make a decision easily. On
top of that, if you force him to hurry up, forget that he will ever
reach a conclusion.
Since he takes time to make up his mind, he may appear to be stubborn.
But, this is not true. He is just thinking which task to do first.
Yelling wouldn't help. Infact, it will disturb his equilibrium state of
mind and he will become more confused than ever. You give a Libran child
some work, one task at a time and he will do it in a jiffy, since he
will not be making any choice. You also have to be sure that you are not
asking him to do something it too harshly. Mild tones work the best with
him. Teach him how to make up his mind, in a very pleasant way.
The best way to do this is to suggest him a solution again and again.
Show him how to reach a conclusion time and again and gradually; he will
get over his indecisiveness. A Libran baby likes harmony and discord
disturbs his state of mind. He needs peace, quiet and rest much more
than the other children. Things like loud voice and harsh colors do not
suit him well. Whenever you start getting frustrated over his
indecision, just remember it is in his characteristics profile and he
can do nothing about it.
One of the basic reasons for a Libra baby's vacillation is that he
wants to be fair and balanced. He doesn't wants to misjudge a situation
or a person and tends to weigh both the sides too much. One of the
annoying personality traits of a Libran child is his laziness. He may
not move an inch for hours at a time. Here, you will have to remember
that he is not lazy in the literal sense. Infact, most of the time he is
hyperactive. He needs these resting spells to regain his strength. Soon,
he will be his energetic self again. Don't fuss with him about
inactiveness; otherwise he may become lazier in self-defense.
Libran children are quite gentle, kind, considerate and have a pleasant
personality. They have the ability of softening even the hardest of
hearts with their smile. They are very bright and have the ability of
taking both the sides in a debate and then, winning both of them. A
Libran child is found arguing many a times, since he cannot tolerate
someone making a casual remark about something. According to him, you
have to look at both the sides of the coin and only then should you
comment on a situation or a person.
You won't be facing much problem in making him adhere to the rules, as
long as you have managed to convince him about them. With a Libran baby,
you will have to sharpen your wits every now and then. He may argue
about anything under the sun and then, you will need logic to support
your side. He is entirely faithful and you can easily tell him any
secret. He believes in maintaining the trust of people and will seldom
indulge in gossip. Don't expect him to take your side if you are wrong.
A Libra child has a strong sense of fairness, which forces him to take
the side of only that person who is right. Of course, he will take time
making up his mind about who is right. He will respect your privacy and
expect the same from you. He will also be quite neat and orderly, since
he hates mess. Art and beauty is something in which almost all the
Librans maintain an interest. He will also have his days of kiddy
romance. All said and done, your Libran child will be delight to
nurture, especially with those cute dimples and that captivating smile
of his!
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