There are very less chances of finding a Sagittarius
man alone. In most probability, you will always find him surrounded by a
crowd. It will be entirely upto you to move away that crowd and get
closer to him. He is also very optimistic about life and this optimism
may sometimes border around blind faith. This attitude leads him to
trust almost everyone and, more often than not, he ends up getting hurt.
A Sagittarian male will always be running after some high dreams, which
probably no one even thought of before.
While running, he often fails to see the puddles, falls flat on his
face and then, gets hurt. It does not mean that the dreams are not
practical. He would have investigated them thoroughly and they will be
realistic too, even though the world is not yet ready for them. The
problem is that in his enthusiasm, he trusts everyone and some of those
people thrash his dreams, even before he could try to realize them.
However, a Sagittarius guy has an exceptionally good luck, which seldom
runs out.
Even though his dreams don't turn out to be the way he planned, he'll
always end up with something useful. There may be times when he returns
empty-handed, but then, he has the ability to forget this and move on
again. Same is the case with love also. Sagittarian men tend to move
over lost love with as much ease as lost dreams. When they form
friendships, they tend to look much beyond the external appearances. The
heart matters to them more than the looks. A Sagittarius man doesn't
have many enemies.
Even those he might have hurt with his frank opinions and comments
usually realize his harmless intentions. He may lack tact, diplomacy and
consideration, but he is never deliberately mean. He doesn't know the
meaning of sugarcoated truth and his statements will always be
straightforward, direct and to the point. Still, people never go away
from him forever. They will come back once the anger has subsided and
then, be his close friends once again. A Sagittarius male seldom forms
long-lasting relationships.
Most of them would be casual and at time, they may be promiscuous too.
However, he is never dishonest in a relationship and will never say 'I
Love You', even he doesn't mean it. He will tell you all about his
previous relationships as well as what he expects out of the present one
with you. He seldom lies, but his flirtation may sometimes be confused
with commitment and result in a proposal from the girl. In case this
happens, he will definitely think over it and most probably, agree to
the marriage, which will be destined to lead to divorce.
A Sagittarian guy is a flirt, but he does not always form licentious
relationships. He may be looking for a platonic partner, with whom to
roam around and have fun. At times, his friendliness may also be
confused with flirtations. If you want to enter into a serous
relationship with such a man, remember that he looks for a woman with
brains. Intelligence turns him on and bimbos are a strict no-no. After
you have managed to win a Sagittarian man's love, give him freedom. In
exchange, never let him curb your independence.
Don't try to bind him and please never be suspicious of him. He is way
too honest to be disloyal to you and he expects you to be sincere and
truthful in return. Boredom makes him miserable and he wants a wife who
is as enthusiastic about life as he is. Always encourage his weirdest of
dreams and when he is not there, keep yourself busy with other things.
Once you become sure of his commitment, throw subtle hints about
marriage. However, never be the one to propose or suggest it.
You can even say that if the relationship doesn't lead to marriage, you
can still be good friends. In all the probability, your Sagittarian man
will propose marriage and make it work too. He will never let his family
members or relatives interfere in your life and you will be expected to
do the same. Never ever doubt his integrity or you will have to bear his
nasty temper. When and if he is wrong, he will always come and admit it.
He believes that truth and honesty is the basis of all relationships and
he will make sure to follow this.
A Sagittarius man wants his wife to mingle with people just as he does.
If you are a little reserved, try to come out of your inhibitions. He
will never try to put curbs on you and he will not mind even if you work
after marriage. With him, prepare yourself for some forthright
criticism. Infact, by this time, you should have gotten used to it. He
may take time to get used to kids, but once he does, he will become
their closest buddy and give them lots of love and affection. Don't
neglect him when the children come. He was the first love of your life
and should remain so. Just be there when he trips and will always be
there for you in return!
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